We'll call this one Adelaide. She's 29, upset by a recent divorce from a man she described as not understanding or caring about her needs. She doesn't have kids. She's spent 8 years thinking about him - his needs - what dinner he likes, laying out his clothes, feeding him before herself, giving him backrubs and footrubs, paying the bills, keeping the house, having the house painted blue because that was his favorite color...
She hadn't thought about her Bucket List...her life goals. Here's her list:
"Lifetime" - own my own house, go to Ireland, see the Northern Lights, Go to Amsterdam, explore all caves across the country, visit NYC as much as possible, be in NYC on New Years Eve, on a Mercedes, be a better baker, Party on a roof top, Visit Roswell, Kiss the Blarney Stone, Write a book, Explore New Zealand, See ruins, go to the Statue of Liberty, Vist Salem Mass with my sister and neice, Learn how to Tattoo, Storm Chase, find the Cash Cab, invent something useful, live on a beach, pay fro a trip to space, buy a houseboat.
Future - Get a degree, happily married, have a child, see San Fransisco, quit smoking, want to counsel other people through break ups, start own business, explore PCH, go to Canada, sister trip to a winery, attend and NFL game, see Phantom of the Opera live, Learn Cake decorating, learn how to knit, persue forensics, attend a hockey game, get a better job, get my own place, see Hawaii, Experience Mardi Gras in New Orleans, Color Run, Visit Rhode Island (light houses) Got to Six Flags, Grow a garden, ghost hunting, Find my spirituality, learn to play the violin.
Obtainable Now - Learn to Celtic braid, reach goal weight, see Dave Matthews Band, learn to dance, meet new people, new tattoos, visit a "blind" dining resaurant, leanr to make candles (candle sculpting), be in someone's wedding, hot air balloon ride, learn to ride a motorcycle, dance in public, complete Insanity Workout, date for fun, volunteer, go ice skating, learn how to shoot a gun, conquier a mountain, more creative writing, learn how to grill, Oija Board, see a psychic, ride a horse".
